Tuesday, June 03, 2008

Second Time Round...

i did not expect that i would enter this headspace again. i thought i had resolved this issue in my heart. but as things happen, i am.

why must i go through this pain again? all the hurt and distrust of guys just wells up inside me again. why do i fall so easily? why don't they like me back? is it because i'm not good enough? a candid confession if there is any of me floating around on cyber space. i feel like there is all this "stuff" that's inside of me. i feel insecure.

even though anticipating what she was gonna say and what was going on, there is always the unexpected - how i'll react in the situation. she didn't expect i would be this hurt. i braved on honesty and told her how confusing he was. that helped for me to be real. 

once again, like in the k & j situation i seemed gracious and strong. but i'm not. even if jj says i am. but isn't that the not good part? God wants me to be weak so He can be my strength. 

even so, i feel like i've been rejected.  talking to my cousin who tried to comfort me helped a little. i'm pondering if i should call on my prayer army and ask for their support. 

i wonder when i will learn my lesson. how will i handle this? is this a test? how will i fare on it?why can't i just be happy for once for a new couple??? when will i stop envying and living for myself? 

all these spirit-breaking questions. humbling. and also i'm wondering: by circumstance or by my choice? 

when will i have my happy ending? 


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